15 Best Valentine’s Day Gifts & Experiences for Every Desire
Say goodbye to cliché chocolates and roses…
While you don’t need a special occasion to shower your boo with love, there’s something extra magical about the gifts you give on Cupid’s big day. Sure, birthdays and Christmas are great for gifting too, but Valentine’s Day is all about showing just how deep your feelings really go—and maybe even an opportunity to introduce something new to spice things up in the bedroom. That's where we come in!
So, get ready to impress your special someone (or treat yourself!) with these unforgettable Valentine’s Day gifts for her, him, and them—because everyone deserves a little extra love!
1. STRIKE A POSE, SET HEARTS (AND PULSE) RACING – BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY
Turn up the romance and confidence with a steamy boudoir photoshoot! Hedonist Boudoir Photography offers a personalized 90-minute session in a cozy home studio—a judgment-free space where you can explore your sensuality with confidence. Whether it’s a solo celebration or a shared moment with a partner, our warm and inviting female photographers will guide you every step of the way, ensuring you feel completely at ease. This experience is more than just photos; it’s about honoring your unique beauty, embracing self-expression, and creating lasting memories that would last a lifetime.
Perfect for Solo/Couples
2. MORE BOW-CHICKA-WOW-WOW! – HOLLY & NAOMI BANDAGE RED LINGERIE
Set the mood this Valentine’s with fiery red lingerie pieces that ignite passion. The Naomi Bandage Lingerie hugs every curve, leaving just enough to the imagination, while the Holly Ribbon Lingerie with its playful 4-piece set and leg harness invites you to explore the art of unwrapping. Designed to tease and reveal, this seductive ensemble is perfect for turning every naughty moment into an unforgettable experience. Let the mischief begin!
Perfect for Solo/Couples
HOLLY RIBBON LINGERIE & NAOMI BANDAGE LINGERIE
3. LESS TALK, MORE ACTION – HEDONIST’S ROLE-PLAY COSTUMES
These easy-to-wear lingerie costumes—think seductive French Maid, Nurse, and Police—are crafted from high-quality, skin-loving fabrics for ultimate comfort and a flawless fit. Complete the look with our sultry nipple pasties and stockings for that extra touch of allure. Whether you’re gearing up for a special date night or planning a playful surprise, these costumes and accessories are designed to make your intimate moments unforgettable.
Perfect for Solo/Couples
4. FALL IN LOVE AGAIN – THE INTIMACY RESET
Feel like your relationship could use a spark? The Intimacy Reset is a personalized 1-on-1 coaching session to help couples reconnect and bring back the passion. Led by certified Intimacy Coach Dr. Angela Tan, this fun, interactive workshop (virtual or in-person) breaks down intimacy barriers and fosters open conversations about desires.
You’ll leave with a tailored Intimacy Action Plan, a Communication Cheat Sheet, a Reflection Journal, and a curated list of resources to deepen your connection. Let’s reignite the passion again!
Perfect for Couples
5. GET KNOTTED IN PASSION – THE ART OF SHIBARI
Ever fantasized about being tied up or tying up your partner? Explore the art of Shibari in a private, 2-hour workshop designed for couples. Led by a professional kink expert, this session teaches safe and creative rope bondage techniques to enhance intimacy and create unforgettable moments. Plus, the Hedonist Sensual Pleasure Kit, included in the workshop, adds an extra layer of sensuality to your experience. Perfect for couples looking to deepen their connection and unlock new dimensions of pleasure. Tie up your Valentine’s Day with thrilling intimacy and playful connection!
Perfect for Couples
6. SPOILT FOR CHOICE – HEDONIST'S GIFT SETS
We’ve curated our top-sellers for couples ready to have a sizzling night in. Packed with a variety of pleasure essentials which includes the iconic magic wand, cock ring, and other must-have tools—Netflix & Chill Gift Set is this Ultimate Pleasure 101 collection that has everything you need for an unforgettable, feel-good experience.
For seasoned lovers, “I’m All Yours Gift Set” takes intimacy to a new level. With the Furry Leather Collar, Cuffs, and a Ball Gag, this set is perfect for igniting passion, exploring sensual dominance, and indulging in bold, exciting experiences.
Perfect for Couples
7. OPEN UP TO NEW POSSIBILITIES – CUPID’S KINKY COLLECTION
For couples ready to push their boundaries and explore new thrills, the Cupid collection is your perfect gateway to adding kink and excitement to the bedroom. Featuring naughty bed restraints, door jam cuffs, a spreader bar, bondage thigh sling, and a sex swing, this collection combines style with comfort. With easy-on, easy-off clips, and adjustable straps and cuffs, you’ll have everything you need to set the stage for exhilarating dominance and submission, leaving you both craving more with every touch.
Suitable for Couples
8. THE PRELUDE BEFORE THE BIG GAME – HEDONIST’S SEX GAMES
Add a playful twist to your Valentine’s night with Let’s Get Naughty or our naughty dice—two flirty games designed to ignite passion and laughter. These playful games are the perfect prelude to an unforgettable evening, filled with exciting dares, cheeky challenges, and plenty of heat. Whether you’re rolling the dice or taking turns with a playful spin, each round promises a mix of fun and flirtation that will set the mood and spark connection. Get ready to let go of inhibitions, embrace the thrill of the unknown, and make this Valentine’s one to remember with a little naughty fun to kick things off!
Perfect for Couples
LETZ GET NAUGHTY CARDS | NAUGHTY DICE
9. PLEASURE IS JUST ONE BUTTON AWAY – APP & BLUETOOTH REMOTE CONTROL TOYS
Take your pleasure to new heights with our APP and Bluetooth Remote Control Toys, designed to bring intimacy closer—no matter the distance. Perfect for couples in long-distance relationships, these app-enabled toys (like Lovense) let you stay connected and control the action from anywhere in the world.
For those looking to spice things up in person, Bluetooth remote control toys give you the freedom to enjoy hands-free pleasure or hand the reins over to your partner. Whether you’re teasing, tantalizing, or indulging in unforgettable fun, these toys put your pleasure in your control.
Perfect for Couples
APP & BLUETOOTH REMOTE CONTROL TOYS
10. FOR THE SQUIRTERS (IYKYK) – HEDONIST’S MOUILLE BLANKET
Say hello to your trusty partner for passion-packed nights, minus the fuss of complicated cleanups! Wave goodbye to the awkward post-pleasure bedsheet swaps and welcome uninterrupted intimacy with our versatile Waterproof Fleece Blanket. Perfect for every occasion! Whether you’re getting steamy under the sheets or snuggling up close to your special someone during netflix and “chill” on the sofa, get wrapped up in luxury with this ultra-soft blanket!
Perfect for Solo/ Couples
MOUILLE WATERPROOF FLEECE BLANKET
11. HARNESSING THE FUN – HEDONIST’S PHOENIX STRAP-ON HARNESS & DILDO BUNDLE
The Hedonist Strap-On Harness & Bendable Dildo Bundle is perfect for pegging, lesbian play, or any intimate exploration. The size-friendly harness offers a comfortable, adjustable fit for full control, while the bendable dildo molds to your body’s curves for personalized pleasure. Whether you’re new to strap-ons or experienced, this bundle delivers the perfect mix of comfort, control, and excitement for unforgettable moments.
Perfect for Solo/ Couples
HEDONIST PHOENIX STRAP-ON HARNESS & DILDO BUNDLE
12. FOR A TUSHY THAT STEALS THE SHOW – BEJEWELLED HEART METAL BUTT PLUGS
Take your backdoor adventures to the next level with the stunning Bejewelled Heart Metal Butt Plug Bundle. Featuring three progressively larger plugs, each designed with a smooth teardrop shape and an elegantly sculpted design, this set delivers the perfect balance of comfort, sophistication, and irresistible allure. Add a dash of playful romance to your Valentine’s celebrations with the charming heart-shaped plug, a delightful treat for both the eyes and the senses.
Perfect for Solo/ Couples
BEJEWELLED HEART METAL BUTT PLUG BUNDLE
13. THE SELF-CARE TREAT LIKE NO OTHER – SEX BOMB
Turn your bathroom into a romantic spa retreat with this one-of-a-kind bubble bath infused with alluring aphrodisiac scents; housing a naughty surprise within. Back by popular demand, the Sex Bomb returns this Valentine’s with the ultimate treat for the senses – jam packed with the sensual scent of Black Orchid and Lavender, drizzled with Himalayan Salt and a hidden buzzing surprise - a Raven Bullet Vibrator. Watch your Handcrafted Sex Bomb magically change color as it fizzles in your bath water in a rainbow of colour, presenting you a gift that keeps on giving - multiple orgasms of course!
Perfect for Solo/ Couples
14. FOR A “SOUL-SUCKING” EXPERIENCE – CLIT SUCKERS
“The Ferrari of Clit Stimulators” – these air-pulsing suction toys are designed to take you from 0 to 100 in seconds! With their powerful suction and precision air pulses, they’ll send waves of pleasure that are truly mind-blowing. For an extra indulgence, some models, like our best-selling Polly—feature warming functions that enhance blood flow to your most sensitive areas, intensifying arousal and making every sensation even more electrifying. And then there’s the Dolce Vita Rose, with its dual-action feature to both thrust and suck. Solo lovers and lesbians alike have been raving about its incredible sensations, ensuring a pleasure experience that’s second to none. Ready to take your pleasure to the next level? Well, you’ll just have to try it to believe it yourself!
Perfect for Solo (For Her)
BEST "SOUL-SUCKING" CLIT SUCKER TOYS
15. A LITTLE SOLO TREAT TO LOVE THYSELF HARDER – POSEIDON & MCSTEAMY
The search for the perfect gift for him ends here! Dive into our collection of naughty gift sets and “gluck gluck” toys, featuring everything from vibrating cock rings, warming sex toys to improve blood flow to his “banana”, rotating masturbators and anal toys for prostate play—yes, we said it. Whether you’re surprising him with a seductive treat or taking your intimacy to the next level, our expertly curated selection is crafted to deliver unforgettable pleasure.
Perfect for Solo (For him)
BEST "BANANA-CLEANING" GIFT IDEAS
Looking for more creative ways to gift a sex toy? Check out our blog Creative Ways to Gift a Sex Toy Without Offending Your Partner and Find the Best Sex Toy Gifts for Every Zodiac Sign for unique ideas to help you plan the perfect Valentine’s Day gift.